Swinger reveals what a ‘dragon’ is within the sexual way of life

A swinger has taken to social media to clarify a brand new time period within the way of life – a ‘dragon’.

It sounds odd however it may be added to the lengthy, ever-growing checklist of phrases utilized by these within the polyamorous neighborhood.

Those on-line just lately revealed that there are ‘unicorns’ amongst swingers, who participate in swinging with out being in relationships.

More particularly, they are often outlined as ‘a single lady that performs with {couples} and swingles within the swinging way of life’, with ‘swingles’ thought to imply ‘swinging singles’.

On high of phrases like this, there are additionally symbols to look out for in the neighborhood, such because the the wrong way up pineapple or a black ring, with swingers identified to sign who they’re to different like-minded folks in public areas.

Not all swingers subscribe to those behaviours although, regardless of many who partake within the way of life taking to on-line platforms to share their very own experiences.

Each individual within the way of life has their very own beliefs and experiences, but it surely doesn’t suggest that they don’t seem to be conscious of any new phrases floating round.

Enter, ‘dragon’.

A TikToker often known as @vistawife, who can be a kind of answerable for bringing the ‘unicorn’ time period to the mainstream, has beforehand taken to the platform to clarify who falls into the class of ‘dragon’.

She identified that she’d ‘personally by no means come throughout this phrase earlier than’, as she explained: “A dragon is a single bisexual male who plays with other couples or singles in the lifestyle.”

It’s basically the identical as a ‘unicorn’ however for male contributors, with one admitting to being one within the feedback: ” Looks like I’m a dragon then, nothing better than the best of both worlds however turning up solo comes with preconceptions by some.”

Another identified: “We don’t necessarily have to be single, just have a dynamic that allows us to play alone.”

These new phrases enterprise away from the widespread perception that swingers consists of {couples} getting concerned within the bed room with each other.

The time period ‘dragon’ can be utilized by polyamorous {couples} in search of a person to hitch in with their bed room actions, although like a unicorn, the important thing level is that the individual concerned is one who ‘doesn’t threaten the connection’.

So, it doesn’t matter what occurs beneath the sheets, the couple is not trying to turn out to be a throuple beneath any circumstances.

For swingers who could appear a bit daunted by these potentialities, possibly it is price venturing into ‘comfortable swapping’ earlier than getting correctly caught in.