Dear Abby: Texas swimming buddy hesitates to inform pal he noticed an alligator of their lake

DEAR ABBY: I’m a senior man dwelling subsequent door to a barely older lady. We dwell in lakefront houses and revel in being energetic collectively within the water throughout our retirement years. Recently, I used to be searching the window and noticed an alligator swimming by about 50 yards away. Alligators are virtually unknown in our a part of the lake, however they’re recognized to dwell within the space.

Should I inform my neighbor that I noticed an alligator, which is able to trigger her a lot concern that she could by no means need to swim once more? If she does proceed to swim, will she dwell so closely on the hazard that I’ll have ruined any remaining pleasure she will get from being within the water?

On the opposite hand, if I don’t inform her, she may very well be inserting herself at risk. Obviously, I might miss my pal and really feel horrible if something occurred to her. Please advise. — VIGILANT IN TEXAS

DEAR VIGILANT: Which is extra essential? Your neighbor’s life or her swimming? If you don’t warn her about what you noticed, and he or she loses a toe, a foot, an arm or her life, how will you are feeling then? Please … SPEAK UP!

P.S. Do YOU plan to proceed swimming the place there are alligators? Think! YOU may very well be bitten, too.

Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also referred to as Jeanne Phillips, and was based by her mom, Pauline Phillips. Contact Dear Abby at www.DearAbby.com or P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069.