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It is that point of the yr once more once we inform our particular somebody how a lot we love them within the type of sweets, flowers, playing cards, candies, and reservations at your favourite restaurant.

It is a time once we pause and make an additional effort to reconnect with the particular person we share our lives with.

Long earlier than Elizabeth Barrett Browning’s well-known sonnet opener of “How Do I Love Thee? Let me count the ways,” there lay a historical past that many forgot, and for good motive. Journey with me; study a bit, chortle a little bit, and love rather a lot!

Dark origins

Valentine’s Day started in historical Rome as a pagan ritual generally known as Lupercalia. Every February fifteenth, monks would sacrifice animals, hoping to excite fertility in ladies. Not a romantic opener, I do know… nevertheless it will get worse.

The flesh from these unlucky animals had been used to whip the ladies into stated fertility. Where then bachelors would choose the names of their sweethearts from an urn—hopefully one not crammed with ashes.

Thankfully, we people are quick toothed in reminiscence of such archaic practices and have since based organizations to guard our furry, domesticated mates.

The Catholic church has martyred at least three Saint Valentines.

The standard idea holds that round 260 A.D. when Emperor Marcus Areleus Claudius Gothicus, often known as Claudius II, outlawed marriage within the hopes of inspiring males to affix the military, Saint Valentine of Terni continued his matrimonial practices regardless of the unorthodox regulation.

Before his beheading, he signed his farewell, “From Your Valentine.”

Hearts, candies, flowers, playing cards

Commercial, ahem, reasonably, formal Valentine’s Day messages emerged across the 1500s, adopted by specifically printed playing cards within the 1700s.

The observe arrived within the United States within the mid-1800s. In 1835, over 60,000 Valentine’s Day playing cards had been mailed within the U.Okay. that yr, regardless of the [then] extraordinarily excessive value of postage.

In 1916, Hallmark® playing cards made their means into our lives right here within the good ole U.S. of A.

Oh, the issues we do for love. Now, let’s get to the not-so-heart of the matter.

Money, cash, cash

Each yr, roughly $1 billion is spent on playing cards alone within the United States, with one other $2.6 billion on flowers.

It is estimated that in 2026, Valentine’s Day gross sales are anticipated to whole over $29 billion. Here’s the information.

In 2025, the inhabitants of the U.S. was 347,275,250. That equates to round $90 spent for each citizen within the U.S. An estimated 18.24% of the 347+ million are underneath the age of 15. Another 1.92% are over the age of 85.

Given that each age teams usually are not as prone to be within the relationship pool, we are going to add a further, say, 20% to our unique calculation of $90, totaling a mean of $108 per particular person.

If half of the remaining populace, and that could be a massive if, are in a relationship, that equates to $216 per couple to say “I love you!”

Is it overrated?

I’m typically thought of the romantic kind. I like choosing contemporary, stunning flowers and stunning the love of my life on a Tuesday, reasonably than a vacation. I like popping into her workplace when she least expects it.

I get pleasure from sneaking her off to lunch when her schedule permits. I ship random love notes (texts) when she’s asleep and I’m working in some faraway location.

I grew up watching motion pictures like Casablanca and To Catch a Thief from the Nineteen Forties and 50s; movies that also seize hearts many years later. Am I a hopeless romantic? The jury remains to be deliberating.

Personally, I’ve not celebrated Valentine’s Day in a number of years. I feel there are 364 different days through which to completely have fun love for my 1770979686 fiancé, Sarita.

When we had been first relationship, I informed her I used to be going to get her the identical reward for Valentine’s that I bought her the yr prior. A perplexed look fell upon her face as she stated, “You didn’t get me anything last year. In fact, we were not even dating then.” My humored wit impresses me at instances.

Lupercalia 2.0

I counsel we begin a renewed motion to return to our midst the beloved Lupercalia celebrations on the fifteenth. Any takers?

Consider the advantages, my mates. Shorter restaurant wait instances and with out reservations, sweets and flowers are sometimes on sale (applause from my thrifty readers), and visitors and parking are definitely a lot improved. It probably signifies a uniqueness to your vital different, a aptitude for journey, particularly when attempting to convey how a lot you’re keen on somebody.

I’d say we skip the sacrificial animals, much less these milkfish your pari caught this morning or the ribs your aunty purchased on base, Andersen or NBG. Wink-wink.

Perhaps, you probably have a relative, a mom, grandmother, daughter, or perhaps a son or grandfather, invite them out for Lupercalia Day or Valentine’s Day +1 celebrations. They simply would possibly recognize the sentiment greater than you notice. Let somebody exterior of your romantic circle really feel love and a spotlight whilst you’re nonetheless in a position to take action. One day, you’ll by no means get the prospect to ask once more.

Galentine’s Day?

If you don’t have a date, crack open a coconut, maybe add an grownup mixer, and watch the sundown with out paying a invoice. You can nonetheless tip your hardworking bartender or waiter, although.

Treat your self to a pleasant dinner, purchase that field of sweets, then eat all the field!

Apparently, Galentine’s Day is a factor, so don’t be afraid to like your self.

A not-so-hopeless romantic

As we (Sarita and I) are planning a romantic and conventional marriage ceremony, in nice half and principally at my request, it appears honest to say that I’m nonetheless a fan of celebrating love on the 14th and day by day you’re with the one you’re keen on.

If you haven’t discovered that particular somebody but, cease trying and love will assuredly discover you once you least anticipate it.

Until subsequent time, that is Coconut Love +1 (Sarita) sending all of the lovebirds on Guam, Saipan and all of the coconut isles within the CNMI, a Happy Valentine’s (and Lupercalia) Day. Laissez les bon temps rouler.